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# Your Holy Grail: Bras
- URL: https://go-fug-yourself.ghost.io/your-holy-grail-bras-06-2025/
- Published: 2025-06-18T15:00:06.000Z
- Updated: 2025-06-18T18:38:32.000Z
- Description: Wrangle thyself!
- Author: Heather
- Tags: *Shopping*, fugs, holy grail, #wp, #wp-post, #Import 2026-10-07 08:29

Taking a break from skincare! I am FOR SURE a creature of habit when it comes to bras, historically my least favorite thing to shop for even *with* the help of someone who's sized me (for usefulness, I'm a 32C who used to think she was a 34B). Once I found [Gap's wireless t-shirt bra](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19748785?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), I basically just stopped looking elsewhere. I have a bundle of them. They are unsexy, they last a while, they're comfortable, and best of all they're frequently on sale. But, I'm always paranoid they'll stop making them -- as it is, I had to scroll way down past the inferior Breathe Wireless Bra (it *still* finds a way to poke at me!), and for a hot second I thought maybe they'd put all their eggs in that basket.

I've been testing out [a similar bra by Eby](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19749031?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), which is [on sale right now with the matching underwear set](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19749042?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), and I REALLY like it but it's a splurge by my Gap standards. Well, not so bad if Gap isn't on sale, but you feel me. (As a sidebar, though, [Eby is currently running a Buy Two Get a Third Free Sale](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19788468?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), which is VERY enable-y of them.) I accidentally left my bras at home the last time I visited my sister, so I went to Target and [got all excited to find a cheap one also in this vein](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19749150?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io)... and then got rid of it not long after; I got what I paid for. So while I don't need an entire drawer of *expensive* bras, it's nice to have one or two in there, especially if they'll end up lasting longer (the cheap one certainly didn't get me anywhere). There's [a similarly priced one on Thirdlove that's winging its way to me](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19749085?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), because Jessica said she really likes her Thirdlove bras (I can never keep Thirdlove and Honeylove straight; she says the former is the ace and the latter did not work for her). \[*I do love mine!*[ *I have this one.*](https://go.shopmy.us/p-19787920?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io) *The Honeylove is actually fine but I think my issue is that I am a B+ cup so I either rattle around in there, or the bra is too tight; getting to buy a half-size on Thirdlove has helped me a lot. -- J\]*

I do not even own a strapless bra, because I hated them so much back in my twenties. They always ended up down by my ribs. I could definitely use advice on that, too. I would need support, not just something to tamp them down. PLEASE advise.

PS: [We last discussed this in 2023, if you want to revisit past bra convos!](https://go-fug-yourself.ghost.io/your-afternoon-chat-whats-your-holy-grail-bra-08-2023/) And as usual, I will eventually round up the most popular responses and plonk them [under the Holy Grails tab on our ShopMy site](https://shopmy.us/heather-and-jessica/holy-grails?ref=go-fug-yourself.ghost.io), if you want to find them easily later. You don't even have to click our links! I'll never know!

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